Cherry- great reading today. Not really what I wanted to hear but you confirmed my suspicions and have helped to give me the essential tools to move on with my life. Otherwise I probably would have fallen back into the trap and prolonged the pain and confusion. Will definitely update you on what happens in the future, but I will take your words to heart and let go to prevent future resentment, anger, and hurt on my behalf. Life is a matter of choice, not pre-determination. I will take what is offered and not be a salmon trying to swim upstream and force something. Perhaps I will not even take it at all- but moving on is the right choice. Thanks, Cherry.